tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12122672.post115535270617870979..comments2023-09-07T06:39:00.038-05:00Comments on My Husband's Crap: Klutter Kills a MarriageSleeping Mommyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02513072010842238560noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12122672.post-1155737061140039142006-08-16T09:04:00.000-05:002006-08-16T09:04:00.000-05:00What does your husband say when you tell him you f...What does your husband say when you tell him you feel helpless? Does he get it from your point of view?<BR/><BR/>And what does he say "the problems" are from his point of view? Can you at least understand where his mind is, or this just a big mystery area for you?<BR/>Andrew McAllister Ph.D.<BR/><A HREF="http://lovehonoranddismay.blogspot.com/" REL="nofollow">To Love, Honor and Dismay</A>Andrew McAllisterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07210761023973607515noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12122672.post-1155593121387435892006-08-14T17:05:00.000-05:002006-08-14T17:05:00.000-05:00jackie: I said many times that I want a wife!jackie: I said many times that I want a wife!Cyclothymic Cisterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05694907622866096228noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12122672.post-1155526297908253872006-08-13T22:31:00.000-05:002006-08-13T22:31:00.000-05:00I think your husband is my husband's clone. What...I think your husband is my husband's clone. What's really sad is that I grew up with a dad who would help everyone but not clean up his yard or do repairs on his house. All I wanted was a clean yard and a nice little house when I grew up. I now have a lazy husband who gets mad when I mow the yard because it's "his job". Whatever. I think I'm going to get me a wife instead of a husband next time.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12122672.post-1155393387949524632006-08-12T09:36:00.000-05:002006-08-12T09:36:00.000-05:00Thanks guys, for understanding. Sometimes I think ...Thanks guys, for understanding. Sometimes I think I am crazy. I'm not even sure the counselor understands the extent of the problem.Cyclothymic Cisterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05694907622866096228noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12122672.post-1155384767881533112006-08-12T07:12:00.000-05:002006-08-12T07:12:00.000-05:00I can recall feeling like this so many times. Righ...I can recall feeling like this so many times. Right now I AM helpless--I've injured my back and just can't do the things I used to. Now I HAVE to rely on him to get the mundane stuff done and it's just not getting done--not without alot of juvenile huffing and puffing over it at least.<BR/><BR/>All that to say--I'm with you. And it sucks.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12122672.post-1155353655821644342006-08-11T22:34:00.000-05:002006-08-11T22:34:00.000-05:00Praise the lord and pass the ammunition. I had to...Praise the lord and pass the ammunition. I had to take matters into my own hands. Although now, I'm out of town and hubby has to fend for himself and is actually fixing a few things. If he tears down that living room wall like he wants to do (and I'm against it), there'll be HUGE trouble.Willowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09339006290850303550noreply@blogger.com