tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12122672.post4339886337652377463..comments2023-09-07T06:39:00.038-05:00Comments on My Husband's Crap: I think Crap is exploding out of my house.Sleeping Mommyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02513072010842238560noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12122672.post-7323841386022942922008-09-12T17:04:00.000-05:002008-09-12T17:04:00.000-05:00Codzilla,Wow for the amount of time and effort it ...Codzilla,<BR/><BR/>Wow for the amount of time and effort it took you to read this post and leave a comment you sure didn't read the top of the page. <BR/><BR/>Don't assume to understand the relationship I have with my husband based on this blog. I've said it before and I'll say it again, I refuse to treat my husband like a child. It is his house too. I'm going to throw out his stuff unless it is very clearly trash--and even he won't dispute whether it is trash or not.<BR/><BR/>I'd do more harm to my relationship by doing that than by posting a few pictures and a description of them in a vent on this blog. Which he knows about and simply rolls his eyes over.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12122672.post-52465626655394341802008-09-12T13:01:00.000-05:002008-09-12T13:01:00.000-05:00Wow, for the amount of time and effort it took to ...Wow, for the amount of time and effort it took to document and post this stuff on the web, you could have made a real dent in that mess.<BR/><BR/>I realize I probably won't see this comment make it past the moderator and there's something to be said for venting, but seriously.....claim one room and tell him ANY crap left in there unattended will be thrown out. Once that is established, reclaim one room at a time until all his crap is in his-only space. <BR/><BR/>And then, for the sake of your relationship, leave him alone. You will not change him and you will only do damage by invading his space. He's obviously comfortable with this.<BR/><BR/>You have to admit, at the end you refer to it as "our crap".Codzillahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03371560664498820865noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12122672.post-61512447993655274202008-08-28T22:30:00.000-05:002008-08-28T22:30:00.000-05:00OMG - I can't "beat" you AFA the yard goes, but I ...OMG - I can't "beat" you AFA the yard goes, but I certainly have the house "beat." I'll have to do pix but I have a 2500 sq. ft. house and more than half of it is filled with TOYS. Star Wars, little men dressed in uniforms (which he dresses)...I tried to keep it all downstairs but he has piles all over the breakfast bar and two of my three bedrooms (not mine) are so full of toys one cannot walk and the boyz have to bring their stuff out and pile it up all over the living room, family room and dining room because they have no space in their bedroom or toy room to actually play. I am at my wits end and have contacted a real estate agent so I can buy a new house and move out. He does not work outside the home - he has no income because he is so lazy - he surfs the internet all day (I know this because I had hip replacement surgery and have been at home for the past six weeks - how depressing). I ask and ask him to clean this stuff up - deaf ears. I don't know what to do.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12122672.post-55787257246385623262008-06-06T13:57:00.000-05:002008-06-06T13:57:00.000-05:00You are SO brave to post those pics. My house/yar...You are SO brave to post those pics. My house/yard/garage look just like that, and I won't even let people come over.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12122672.post-32535865316849658442008-05-04T12:56:00.000-05:002008-05-04T12:56:00.000-05:00Well that was overwhelming. De-clutter, de-stres. ...Well that was overwhelming. De-clutter, de-stres. I live by the motto. I could easily accumulate as much stuff as your husband but I regularly make myself go through things and throw out anyting that isn't absolutely necessary or dearly loved. I don't even keep things that could easily be sold at a garage sale because I just can't take the chance knowing I really probably won't have a garage sale "this year."<BR/><BR/>So into the garbage things go...My_Dog_Is_Betterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03947369263621324452noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12122672.post-2909745032594351352008-04-30T16:58:00.000-05:002008-04-30T16:58:00.000-05:00I'm sorry to say this, but after viewing your pic...I'm sorry to say this, but after viewing your pics, I'm feeling pretty good about my husband's crap right now!<BR/><BR/>But hey, just talking about it and photographing it, is the first step. Good luck and thanks for visiting.Meghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16253518897502046799noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12122672.post-85065132739984553642008-04-16T21:45:00.000-05:002008-04-16T21:45:00.000-05:00If we didn't post about it, we'd surely lose our m...If we didn't post about it, we'd surely lose our minds completely.<BR/><BR/>I'm hanging on to my sanity by a mere thread these days. I can't even bring myself to post pictures, lest someone call the Fire Brigade out to my house! LOL!<BR/><BR/>I have threatened to send him away on a fishing trip for a week (and have over friends who will help me curb all of his stuff. There'll be no selling. Just come pick it up = free!!)Willowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09339006290850303550noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12122672.post-2130875758987039922008-04-16T20:34:00.000-05:002008-04-16T20:34:00.000-05:00Since my desk closely resembles your husband's des...Since my desk closely resembles your husband's desk, I'm keeping my mouth completely shut.<BR/><BR/>For once.<BR/>Yeah. I know, right? :)Shannon akaMontyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00379928121511251819noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12122672.post-1389640378782903522008-04-16T20:17:00.000-05:002008-04-16T20:17:00.000-05:00Honestly guys, he's not as bad as he was when I ma...Honestly guys, he's not as bad as he was when I married him. In his defense, he actually does need most of this stuff. It's part of his work, since he restores and customizes hot rods and muscle cars and write magazine articles about the work. <BR/><BR/>I'm cutting him some slack for now, because he doesn't have the size shop at home he needs. BUT he also procrastinates and is horrible at organization. And that more than anything else is why I post this crap.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12122672.post-83688686229496913182008-04-16T19:55:00.000-05:002008-04-16T19:55:00.000-05:00Holy crap! Ummm...You are fussing about all his c...Holy crap! Ummm...You are fussing about all his crap so, I'm just going to say...he has a problem. lol Lots of crap that needs to go. Lots to organize and lots to sell. That would seriously put me in the nut house. Bless you my friend.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01032670042673340276noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12122672.post-52135300533226932632008-04-16T19:33:00.000-05:002008-04-16T19:33:00.000-05:00first your husband and the pictures of his crap ju...first your husband and the pictures of his crap just proved that you are either married to my husband or a close relative of mine. hahahahhahaaaa<BR/><BR/>And my sister in law just gave us a table cuz ours was literally crap. And I have your table!!! Mine is one leaf bigger I guess it looks like. And I have different chairs. Older, more uncomfortable chairs. hahahaha<BR/><BR/>We are trying to move our whole house, and I'm starting to pack up breakables and what not and have this one cleaned up alot, and his CRAP is in my way. I feel your pain darlin. <BR/><BR/>Burfica<BR/><BR/>www.burfica.blogspot.comBurficahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08207396583080371466noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12122672.post-57300458961875726032008-04-16T19:22:00.000-05:002008-04-16T19:22:00.000-05:00Oh Lord honey... Lordy Lordy Lordy.I need to send...Oh Lord honey... Lordy Lordy Lordy.<BR/><BR/>I need to send my husband down there. Known round these parts as "I don't keep nothing, let's throw everything away before my wife sees."<BR/><BR/>The first year we were married, he decided to clean out the guest room closet. He set my wedding dress out on the curb as garbage. Yes. My wedding dress I wore marrying him. Stupid SOB. <BR/><BR/>I will lend him out if ya want...Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07754725497142403932noreply@blogger.com